Are You Ready If Your Spouse Should Pass Away?

Well, of course not, who is?  That said, there are some basics that each partner in a couple should know in case the unthinkable happens:


  • How much life insurance is on each spouse? Where is the policy information kept?
  • Do you have a will? If so, where is it?
  • In whose name are your assets? The house, car, investment accounts, etc.?
  • What debts do you both have? Personal, mortgages, car loans, credit cards, student loans?
  • Where are both partners’ investments? Current and former employer 401(k)s, pensions, bank accounts, safety deposit boxes, investments?
  • What are the user names and passwords to access your accounts online?


After the death of a spouse, there is much work to do:

  • Rollover old work plans to the surviving spouse’s name – don’t wait on this. Sometimes, if the company doesn’t hear from you within a couple of months of the death, they will send you a check for the retirement balance less a 20% tax withholding.  Ouch!
  • Apply for survivors’ benefits through Social Security, Workman’s Compensation, or other programs your spouse was eligible for. Not sure?  Contact the HR departments in ALL of his/her old employers.
  • Retitle hard assets such as home, cars, business interests, or rental property into the surviving spouse’s name.
  • Retitle investment and bank accounts into the surviving spouse’s name.
  • Create a new estate plan for the surviving spouse.
  • Decide what lifestyle changes need to be made if life insurance and social program payments are not enough to cover the bills.


This is only meant to be a basic list to get you thinking.  You will want to work with a CPA, financial planner, and attorney to make sure the re-titling of assets is done in a way that doesn’t whack you with a huge tax bill.   As a grieving spouse is not usually in their best thinking mode, it might be wise to bring a friend to these meetings with you to help take notes and move along with next steps.

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